10.05.2011

Turning of the page



Guess it's inevitable that I would eventually have to update you all on the Scott story. 

I've been debating on how to post this, where to take it, to what extremes and depths but then I stumbled upon that quote above last night and it sorta answered my question for me. The past is the past, and that's where it should remain if we want to move forward.

I will say this however. I know who I am, and what I want out of life. I will never let someone tell me that I don't deserve "some fairytale life" when all I'm simply asking for is respect and dedication.

I will not let someone talk down to me, as if my feelings and thoughts do not matter.

And I will not hang on to someone who so easily tries to turn the tables and point the finger.


So, all this to say that chapter is over. And I am ok with that. I know that I did what my heart was telling me, and I tried Unfortunately, things don't always pan out like you imagine, but I got the closure I needed out of it and have cut ties.




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19 comments:

Melanie said...

Good for you, girl! Stay strong!

Chelsea @ {twotwentyone} said...

I think you said it best-- you know who you are and what you want out of life. If the person you're with isn't willing to support and respect you and your dreams then it's time to let them go. Onward and upward. :)

Lacey in the City said...

I've got your back no matter what decisions you are making. You are strong and smart and beautiful, and you deserve your prince charming...whatever form he shall came in for you :) xoxox

tara said...

*waves* Peace out, Scott!

ashley said...

Sorry to hear it didn't work out love, but at least you won't wonder what if. I hope you are doing okay and that all is well. You are a sweet girl and deserve someone equally amazing!

Marcy XOXO said...

You are amazing with your words and you are wise beyond your years my dear! Love what a strong woman you are and I am so proud of you!!!!

Jennifer said...

Good for you! Stay strong.

K said...

Sorry that it didn't work out. At least you can say that you tried and you will never wonder "what if". This just means that there is someone amazing still out there who will fully appreciate your fabulosity! Hang in there girl!

Caroline said...

At least you gave it your all. No regrets. Love u!

Aly said...

Love that quote-at least you know you tried!

Al said...

You've been on my mind lately my darling, and I have been hoping that whatever had been going on with Scott was going in a direction that would make you happy - no matter which direction that was. Coming from someone who knows (I feel like we have a special trio these days - you, LG, and I) who understand what it feels like to really give everything we have to making our relationships work. But no matter what, atleast we know in our hearts we have done everything we can, and nobody else can understand all the intricacies of such complex emotions and relationships that we have.

I stand behind you all the way, and am proud of you for reaching a decision that is right FOR YOU. You deserve all the best in the world, dear friend, and I know you will get just that.

Much love to you, always...

xoxo

Michelle (michabella) said...

I love this Chels. Letting go is hard but so freeing. Love both of those quotes. But I of course love you more, Pippa. <3

Molly said...

At least you tried, so you don't look back and regret not trying. Keep your chin up, which I know you will :) xoxo

Tiffany said...

I definitely needed to see both of those quotes today!

Good for you...!

Melissa Jo said...

You can only follow your heart and know in the end, that you tried. You don't look back on your life and want to think 'what if'. I'm proud of you for sticking to your heart on this one and proud of you for knowing when to close the chapter. It's difficult but the truth is we both deserve more and eventually we will find it. And it will be worth the wait and we will appreciate him THAT much more.

Your in my thoughts & prayers lovely!

Fly Me to the Moon said...

I love those quotes! Be happy, you deserve the best!

Amanda said...

I'm so proud of you! I'm glad you did what's best for you :) I really love that last quote! I need to go repin stat. Again, so proud of you!

Mrs. Mama said...

Most importantly, you followed your heart. You did what you needed to do, and got the closure you needed to get. Now, we REALLY need to go out for some drinks. Hugs (and shots) sent your way :)

my favorite?

#houseofbooze.

Marian said...

Yeah, I'm a little late on this...but you got this girl!! It will all work out. I mean, I have the biggest girl crush on you if it doesn't;)