tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post9152680965336040219..comments2023-09-28T08:39:57.435-04:00Comments on Hello Miss Chelsea: The one that will possibly cause some controversyMiss Chelseahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13019483918988496228noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-37679778702803726762011-09-21T23:47:56.806-04:002011-09-21T23:47:56.806-04:00Oh my gosh girl! My heart breaks for you so much, ...Oh my gosh girl! My heart breaks for you so much, because I know how difficult it is to deal with a cheater. I had fell head over heels for a cheater long ago (way before my husband), but do know that you can move on. I love love love that quote about forgiveness because it really does take a strong person to forgive! Always remember that only you know what your gut is telling you to do.... don't worry about what others think. <3Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16678835803511719128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-23362435078102221502011-09-19T14:27:52.423-04:002011-09-19T14:27:52.423-04:00I have been a bloggy failure lately but I am just ...I have been a bloggy failure lately but I am just now getting around to reading this! Ah made me tear up! Thinking about you girlie and I am praying for you... You are definately wise beyond your years and regardless you are going to make the best possible decision for you, and you alone! That's all that matters. To hell with everybody else!♥ Marcy ♥https://www.blogger.com/profile/16686442800915742562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-11673116157905471232011-09-19T09:04:59.138-04:002011-09-19T09:04:59.138-04:00I know I am a few days behind, but I did read this...I know I am a few days behind, but I did read this the day you posted, but the Turk was around and we were headed out for the day, so I didn't have time to respond. <br /><br />Know that no matter what, I support you 100%. I believe that only you know what is best for you, and no one has the right to judge based on their own reactions to the situation. My only concern will always be your happiness, and if this is the way you will be truly happy, I cheer you on. You are a brave woman to open your heart to someone who has caused you pain, and not many people could do that so soon. A forgiving quality is a beautiful quality, so kudos to you my love. <br /><br />Remember that we are all here, for better or worse, and will be cheering from the sidelines no matter what. <br /><br />Love to you, sweet girl.Alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05553060941193981280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-73587884543488541932011-09-18T09:47:10.230-04:002011-09-18T09:47:10.230-04:00Wish you two the best... who knows, maybe he is ju...Wish you two the best... who knows, maybe he is just what you need at just the right time. Pop some bottles with your man and just enjoy each others company. Nothing wrong with getting a piece and living life! It doesn't mean you're getting married, but you're allowed to have fun! And, ya know, if you did end up getting married... then it was meant to be. LOL :)krystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16591716925656494613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-31698349260358448782011-09-17T22:38:48.614-04:002011-09-17T22:38:48.614-04:00*hug* You are strong.
I'm scared for you, but...*hug* You are strong.<br /><br />I'm scared for you, but that's because I don't want you to get hurt. But who am I to judge? My fiance and I broke up numerous times for stupid reasons... and now we're engaged and I couldn't be happier. Sometimes you have to do what YOU have to do, regardless of what others think, feel, or say. You live your life the way you choose. <br /><br />I wish y'all the best.Sarah @ Scissors and a Whiskhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01461356880543856687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-70494676703653454402011-09-16T16:21:27.071-04:002011-09-16T16:21:27.071-04:00Good for you for listening to your heart! We'r...Good for you for listening to your heart! We're all here for you no matter what! :) Hopefully only good things for a while though!!Carolynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04505741249401392511noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-60684195846264148702011-09-16T12:33:38.039-04:002011-09-16T12:33:38.039-04:00I support you in every way girlfriend. You go with...I support you in every way girlfriend. You go with that gut feeling. Forgiving is hard, but I SO love that picture of the forgiveness and being strong quote. I admire you sweet girl. <3Michelle (michabella)https://www.blogger.com/profile/09210880599889710623noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-19500663562609165902011-09-15T23:31:05.557-04:002011-09-15T23:31:05.557-04:00Girl, you just do you. For reals. You are an amazi...Girl, you just do you. For reals. You are an amazing person...and I know that from just reading your blogs and tweets. You're fun, gorgeous, smart, fabulous, and in touch with what you want and need in life. You dont take shit, but you also dont act stubborn just to prove a point. I dont have TONS of life experience, but I have enough to know that there are times where I wish I'd just listened to my heart instead of other people. And times I wish I'd listened to other people instead of my heart... haha... But, you know Scott more than any of us do and I say you just rock whatever decision you feel is right! :) Anyone who judges isn't worth the effort.Jaxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11480912262971654881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-91647860911307549792011-09-15T23:06:26.793-04:002011-09-15T23:06:26.793-04:00You will always make the best decisions for you!! ...You will always make the best decisions for you!! Follow your instincts girl :) We're here to support you always!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-86240193046678481382011-09-15T17:05:02.208-04:002011-09-15T17:05:02.208-04:00I am totally behind you on this. You know, my mot...I am totally behind you on this. You know, my mother always told me to follow my intuition, but to "do my research" before following it. Be aware of all of the ways it could turn out, and how you'd feel if any of those ways happened. Does that make sense? I'm sure it doesn't. Anyway, the point I'm trying to make is that you've done that. You've given yourself time, thought about things, talked to people, but most importantly, talked to Scott himself. And I think that if your heart is telling you that there could still be something there, the heart don't lie. Follow it!<br /><br />Thinking about you.Dreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06701301369612622552noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-23312443689326120862011-09-15T15:36:36.857-04:002011-09-15T15:36:36.857-04:00I'm going through the same conversation as you...I'm going through the same conversation as you right now, weighing what my heart wants and what my mind is saying versus what everyone else says. It's hard, but the bottom line is this.. you do what makes YOU happy. Somedays are easier than others, but in the end if he's that guy for you today than that is the RIGHT place for you to be. Don't let your friends and family and bloggers dictate that for you. 'It's better to love and loose, than never to love at all.'Melissa Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01849266681268008691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-79516403955691542792011-09-15T15:09:29.457-04:002011-09-15T15:09:29.457-04:00Great post. You are so right in everything you say...Great post. You are so right in everything you say. Trust your gut and your feelings. They will steer you the right way. <br /><br />The other girl? Still a whore though.<br /><br />Hehe. XOXOXOX.Mrs. Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08400154927719768544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-91134245715081207252011-09-15T14:05:52.696-04:002011-09-15T14:05:52.696-04:00Girl. You need to do whatever makes you happy. As ...Girl. You need to do whatever makes you happy. As long as happy, you're making the right decision.tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09856795703447678997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-6628934195729358322011-09-15T12:58:56.777-04:002011-09-15T12:58:56.777-04:00You know what Chelsea, from everything you had wri...You know what Chelsea, from everything you had written about Scott prior to Jamaica, he seemed like the best kind of guy. One who went out of his way to make you happy, fix things you had only mentioned in passing, and a guy who was really smitten with you. It was really jaring to hear he has screwed up so bad. How does a guy who looks so good on paper do something like that? I don't think anyone outside your situation can judge what's right or wrong for you to do now. You know your heart, you know Scott best, you are the only one who can make the decision of what's the best for YOU. I'll gladly support you in whatever decision you make, as I do with all of my friends, both in real life and in blog land. Hang in there girl!Adrian {Happy girl}https://www.blogger.com/profile/02089707288556665890noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-63627097593183858472011-09-15T12:13:05.277-04:002011-09-15T12:13:05.277-04:00eh. you know i'm the poster child for taking b...eh. you know i'm the poster child for taking back an ex who cheated (Helllooooo married and pregnant now)... and at the time not every agreed (cough....COUGH) :)<br /><br />But the important thing is you do what is right for you. No one EVER knows what goes on in a relationship other then the people in the relationship, despite what they might think. and no one should ever try to make decisions for other people. <br /><br />Just wanted to throw my two cents in!Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12796880405901338582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-12113002541061981612011-09-15T12:12:04.709-04:002011-09-15T12:12:04.709-04:00It's always better to let it out then to hold ...It's always better to let it out then to hold it in. In the end, you always have to do what is best for you at that time. And what is best for you may not be what would be someone else's best. And that is OK, you know? I'm learning myself that the only way OUT of something is through it. And each of our roadmaps for "through" is going to be unique to each of us. Good luck and you have lots of people rooting for you, that's for sure!Deviled Megshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01329451917349508921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-20448858225868844732011-09-15T12:00:41.379-04:002011-09-15T12:00:41.379-04:00I agree with your decision as well. If you feel th...I agree with your decision as well. If you feel that things aren't supposed to end, then they aren't. I'm in a similar-ish boat, with a lot of my friends telling me what I "should" be doing, but they're not in my shoes, and it's not their life to make decisions for. I'm doing what feels right and will worry about things later. If people want to say they told you (or me) in the future, then oh well, at least we both gave what could be a shot, instead of just letting it walk away without ever knowing! Good luck, darling, even if nothing else you're obviously getting a good friend out of the deal!<br />XoXo~Haley~https://www.blogger.com/profile/02974500691425281554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-30382355132697056782011-09-15T11:57:03.664-04:002011-09-15T11:57:03.664-04:00Do what's right for YOU. Only you know how yo...Do what's right for YOU. Only you know how you feel, and what you want. I think you're making a very good choice for you....and hey, if it doesn't turn out the way you hoped, i can tell that you are completely strong enough to handle it, and deal with it on your own terms. You go girl, and best wishes!!Babygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04656715773446704828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-67201327289953926242011-09-15T11:34:43.259-04:002011-09-15T11:34:43.259-04:00Go for it girl! I'm a firm believer in not wal...Go for it girl! I'm a firm believer in not walking away until you are 100 percent confident in your decision. Not that you need any of us to approve what you are doing just know you have supporters!Mrs. Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08196453968405626152noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-55431382156598445802011-09-15T11:30:08.732-04:002011-09-15T11:30:08.732-04:00I'm so proud of you for giving it another chan...I'm so proud of you for giving it another chance. It's so hard, but only you can decide the right decisions on a relationship YOU are in. I don't think your story is over yet either, I can't wait to see what the upcoming days, weeks and months hold for you.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01833619503120793808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-91411066953771671552011-09-15T11:29:41.826-04:002011-09-15T11:29:41.826-04:00So I had a sneaking suspicion about this, since yo...So I had a sneaking suspicion about this, since you were hush hush on it for a while ;) I totally support your decision 100%. You know what is best for YOU, and you know him well enough to believe/trust in what he says. You know all of us wish you nothing but the best, girl!Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03089848615034588352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-81883037637936182322011-09-15T11:17:03.500-04:002011-09-15T11:17:03.500-04:00Keep your head up, girl! You're right - you ha...Keep your head up, girl! You're right - you have to do what feels right for you right now. You have to discover on your own whether what you need to do now it actually what is supposed to happen. You'll figure it out, but you have to do it for you and that's what you're doing, so there is no shame in that!Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01043515901318010898noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-15583287628146676642011-09-15T11:13:57.157-04:002011-09-15T11:13:57.157-04:00you gotta do what's right for you :)you gotta do what's right for you :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-1175910370951830582011-09-15T11:08:42.039-04:002011-09-15T11:08:42.039-04:00I agree. I'm 100% behind you. Only you can kno...I agree. I'm 100% behind you. Only you can know what the right decision for your relationship will be and no one should judge you for giving him another chance. I do not believe "once a cheater always a cheater" and I believe with my whole heart that people can make honest mistakes. <br /><br />I hope you find a peace about what you should do and that if you guys are meant to be you will be able to move past this together. <br /><br />Keep your head up girly!!!Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16007497337771529664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7563177162390061223.post-38565907079745110582011-09-15T11:03:05.611-04:002011-09-15T11:03:05.611-04:00Johnny Depp says it best...do what you have to do....Johnny Depp says it best...do what you have to do. Life's full of tough decisions and really, you will never know if you don't try. <br /><br />Misunderstandings can be the cause of a lot of hurt, trying to understand and make sense of a difficult situation can make the world of difference.<br /><br />Good luck lovely.ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03214292446373308176noreply@blogger.com